What are your limits and who pushes them?

What are your limits? That may be a curious question.  When I was first asked that question I remember thinking, “I don’t exactly know what my limits are, but I know when they’re pushed.”

My second and more reactive thought was, “They know when they’re pushing my limits! Why do they do it again and again and get me angry?”

What I realized was I was blaming them for getting me angry! I was giving them power over me and my happiness, or lack of it.